Trippin'

We drove to San Antonio early Wednesday to catch our flight. Mike surprised me with first class upgrades--such pampering. Hot towels to refresh us, heated mixed nuts, lunch, unlimited beverages, warm cookies for dessert. Mmmmm. We'll be in the back of the bus for the ride home, but it was a nice treat.

We headed to Tito's Tacos for a late lunch and brought food home to mom and dad. Fortunately, we got on the road slightly before rush hour proper started. Sadly, that stretch of the 10 freeway requires 3 passengers to be a carpool.

Thursday we headed to Garden Grove to meet with Lee Gibson and afterward enjoyed a proper afternoon tea with Lee and his business partner, Mary. We chilled at home for a bit before picking up mango chicken and heading to Lee & Angela's for an Asian potluck dinner with Chris, Kirsten, Lorie, Carlan and the rapidly growing Emma, Isabella and Skye.

Friday morning, we met my former classmate, Bill, for breakfast al fresco and gorgeous mountain views in Sierra Madre. Immediately after that, we booked over to Studio City to meet another classmate, Elina, for lunch at the Italian restaurant next to her design showroom. We caught up over heavenly food--my pillowy ravioli with sage and butter was the best I've had.

Friday evening, we headed to Claremont for the opening session of Sunstone West: a film screening of "Nobody Knows: The Untold Story of Black Mormons." Twas an amazing film, delving into early Balck church members, the priesthood ban, the perspectives of members who joined before and after the priesthood ban was lifted.

I was heartened that the film explicitly acknowledged that the "priesthood" ban also affected Black women, who were excluded from serving missions, participating in temple rituals and being able to marry in LDS temples until 1978. It's a point I have raised in every discussion of Blacks and the priesthood I've participated in and that has been consistently brushed aside by whomever is leading the discussion.

Saturday's Sunstone sessions were equally interesting. I attended Seth Payne's session on the study of the ex-Mormon narrative, the lawyer-heavy Why We Stay panel, and the post-lunch plenary session on the legacy of the late President Hinckley. Some of the tributes were gushing, but Mike and Doe did very well at introducing some of the less-sunny implications of Hinckley's long tenure in top church leadership.

My session responding to a paper on Mormonism and immigration went well and was well attended, and the capstone was the presentation on the genesis of the What Women Know document and web site. It was invigorating to revisit the thought processes and work that went into the statement and a powerful example of positive dissent. The discussion carried on among the thirtysome people who went to dinner afterward. I'm glad we made the trip; everything went smoothly and people seemed to enjoy the presentations.

More later on our celebrity sighting at church!